help would be great!!!!!!

the ferret · 07-02-2009, 01:59 AM

what to do, what to do.....
so i have liked this one girl for a very long time, and i dont know what i should do about it. i think she might be interested, and i've prayed about and i feel like i have the go ahead....yet i'm still hesitating.
she is saved, but i still dont know.
what do you think i should do everyone?

the ferret....

dreamergirl818 · 07-02-2009, 10:56 AM

Well for starters, let's have a little questionnaire! first off, how old are both of you? I know that sounds really old fashioned, but truly, if you aren't old enough to be considering marriage it's unwise to be considering romance. In the long run all it does is hurt you deeply when it comes time to break up.

Now for the next couple of questions!

1) is of course both your ages
2) Is she a Christian?
3) Where did you first meet?
4) How long have you known her?
5) Does she seem to take a great interest in the Bible?
6) What are the very first three things that come to mind when you think of her? (be very honest here, otherwise it doesn't work!)
7) How often do you talk to her?
8 ) Is she a regular church attender?

I think that's enough questions for now. Once you've answered those, I'll be able to evaluate the situation a little bit better.

the ferret · 07-02-2009, 11:57 AM

we are both 18
she is a christian
we first met at church
i've known her for 4 years
she loves the bible!
cute (lol), holy spirit filled, fun
very often
yea

did i do that right? lol

livingthefaith · 07-02-2009, 12:21 PM

Well ferret, I have learned from my experiences in the past that if God is not the focus of your relationship things never totaly mesh. So before you make a move (which I would suggest) talk with her about her relationship with God, even if she is saved. Hope this helps, tell me if you need anything else.

the ferret · 07-02-2009, 03:32 PM

thanks so much!
ill tell ya how it goes

the ferret · 07-21-2009, 08:10 PM

so nothing happened with it...but i am content with myself, and i'm glad i tried

heychicky818 · 07-22-2009, 10:35 PM

If you like her, all a girl want is to be told so. Somehow get some alone time with her (like lunch or something) and tell her. Then see what goes on from there! (I think its very cute that you are asking US, you must REALLY like her

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the ferret · 07-23-2009, 11:43 AM

yea....i have told her...i guess its on her now

heychicky818 · 07-23-2009, 12:02 PM

Ooh, well its all in the timing. If it was meant to be and its according to God's Will for you to be with her. Then it will happen. Patience is key.

Psalms 37:4-5 “Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you your heart’s desires. Commit everything you do to the Lord. Trust him, and he will help you.”

Spiritualfire · 07-24-2009, 11:44 PM

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Originally Posted by the ferret

yea....i have told her...i guess its on her now

Well Ferret I am pleased that you told her instead of keeping to yourself. I believe males shouldn't be afraid and that girls should be respectful when questions about relationships pop up. I just want to let you know so that you don't get all down and dumpsy.lol. You did a brave thing.

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the ferret the ferret Edit AY! Newbie	help would be great!!!!!! what to do, what to do..... so i have liked this one girl for a very long time, and i dont know what i should do about it. i think she might be interested, and i've prayed about and i feel like i have the go ahead....yet i'm still hesitating. she is saved, but i still dont know. what do you think i should do everyone? the ferret....
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dreamergirl818 dreamergirl818 has updated her status :D Edit Child of the KING	Well for starters, let's have a little questionnaire! first off, how old are both of you? I know that sounds really old fashioned, but truly, if you aren't old enough to be considering marriage it's unwise to be considering romance. In the long run all it does is hurt you deeply when it comes time to break up. Now for the next couple of questions! 1) is of course both your ages 2) Is she a Christian? 3) Where did you first meet? 4) How long have you known her? 5) Does she seem to take a great interest in the Bible? 6) What are the very first three things that come to mind when you think of her? (be very honest here, otherwise it doesn't work!) 7) How often do you talk to her? 8 ) Is she a regular church attender? I think that's enough questions for now. Once you've answered those, I'll be able to evaluate the situation a little bit better. __________________ Matthew 22:21 ...then said He unto them, "Render therefore unto Caesar the things which are Caesar, and unto God, the things that are God's."
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07-02-2009, 11:57 AM	#3
the ferret the ferret Edit AY! Newbie	we are both 18 she is a christian we first met at church i've known her for 4 years she loves the bible! cute (lol), holy spirit filled, fun very often yea did i do that right? lol
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livingthefaith livingthefaith Edit Disciple	Well ferret, I have learned from my experiences in the past that if God is not the focus of your relationship things never totaly mesh. So before you make a move (which I would suggest) talk with her about her relationship with God, even if she is saved. Hope this helps, tell me if you need anything else.
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07-02-2009, 03:32 PM	#5
the ferret the ferret Edit AY! Newbie	thanks so much! ill tell ya how it goes
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07-21-2009, 08:10 PM	#6
the ferret the ferret Edit AY! Newbie	so nothing happened with it...but i am content with myself, and i'm glad i tried
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heychicky818 heychicky818 is banned for 4 months.... :( Edit AY! Newbie	If you like her, all a girl want is to be told so. Somehow get some alone time with her (like lunch or something) and tell her. Then see what goes on from there! (I think its very cute that you are asking US, you must REALLY like her ) __________________ Many will say to me on that day, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and in your name drive out demons and perform many miracles?' Then I will tell them plainly, 'I never knew you.' Away from me, you evildoers!'
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07-23-2009, 11:43 AM	#8
the ferret the ferret Edit AY! Newbie	yea....i have told her...i guess its on her now
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heychicky818 heychicky818 is banned for 4 months.... :( Edit AY! Newbie	Ooh, well its all in the timing. If it was meant to be and its according to God's Will for you to be with her. Then it will happen. Patience is key. Psalms 37:4-5 “Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you your heart’s desires. Commit everything you do to the Lord. Trust him, and he will help you.” __________________ Many will say to me on that day, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and in your name drive out demons and perform many miracles?' Then I will tell them plainly, 'I never knew you.' Away from me, you evildoers!'
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