Pssst Let me tell you something!!! lol.

Gabry181 · 10-23-2008, 10:21 PM

well ... ok, to make a long story short, my story's about this guy. Ok, I met him through my friend [[I won't go into details about how we met, but if you wanna know pm me or send me a message on my page]] ok. so as i was saying ... I then saw him again a while after which was summer 07. He was telling me how beautiful i am and all that other stuff. Me, on the other hand, was kinda playing hard to get. But anyways, he drove me home from school and he gave me his number. WONDERFUL THING about him is that one : he's CHRISTIAN and 2 : he's serious about being in a relationship with me. I haven't seen him in a while though, since last summer and yea, I know i had his number but when I called they said the number was disconnected.

And NOW, I think about him. wow. lol. what could this be people??? I mean, I constantly pray about the guy i want and al, but Idk. Anyways, what should I do if I see him again???

laters && God Bless

Gaby.

dreamergirl818 · 10-23-2008, 10:25 PM

Slap him for giving you the wrong number! Lol, not seriously

I suggest.. hhhmm, actually, forget it, my advice wouldn't be worth much right now, as I'm going through some relationship problems. I'll just talk to you about it later. It's time for me to get off the computer anyway and crash into bed (not that I'll sleep mind you, but I ought to fake it at least

) I'll send you a PM about it tomorrow.

HisEasterRising · 10-24-2008, 11:48 AM

Gaby,

Here's what I have to say.

I know, at least for me, I get caught up in the whole relationship/love thing. Which I feel is quite bad for me. I think and dwell on her moreso than I should. I do it in a positive way: Man! She is Beautiful! Or Wow! She opened up or whatever, the point is I idolize her. More often than not. I am not ready for a relationship and if that is the cost count me out.

While I do not know you circumstances I know that for me being intentional about such a relationship is much more harmful than good.

I try to focus more on God than that person, I try to lessen the intensity so to produce a friendish love rather than the other.

Perhaps it is just me but it seems that you actually don't know him and he is still serious about a relationship, that sounds strange. I know in my case the only reason for me to be like that is if I have heard a lot of great things about her or I think she is very attractive. I am not trying to be dumb but to paint you a picture of what a man thinks.

Gabry181 · 10-24-2008, 05:18 PM

I get what you mean, im not focusing on him more ... I focus on God more than I focus on him. I was just asking for everyone's opinion on that. =]

but thanks for your afvice though. =]

A2J · 10-29-2008, 03:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gabry181

well ... ok, to make a long story short, my story's about this guy. Ok, I met him through my friend [[I won't go into details about how we met, but if you wanna know pm me or send me a message on my page]] ok. so as i was saying ... I then saw him again a while after which was summer 07. He was telling me how beautiful i am and all that other stuff..

+ Be careful he may just value your looks.
+ Be careful about flattery - words deceive

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gabry181

Me, on the other hand, was kinda playing hard to get. But anyways, he drove me home from school and he gave me his number. WONDERFUL THING about him is that one : he's CHRISTIAN and 2 : he's serious about being in a relationship with me. I haven't seen him in a while though, since last summer and yea, I know i had his number but when I called they said the number was disconnected.

And NOW, I think about him. wow. lol. what could this be people??? I mean, I constantly pray about the guy i want and al, but Idk. Anyways, what should I do if I see him again???

laters && God Bless

Gaby.

I just have a few points that hopefully you will find helpful:
+ One of my favourite verses is Proverbs 4 v 23: Guard your heart above all else because it determines the course of your life.
+ Ask God if this is the right move for you, God has convicted me before that a guy I liked was wrong for me.
+ Is this the right time for you - see song of solomen.
+ If you do go ahead remember to keep God the centre.
+ As a girl (well young women), I find it so easy to feel overwhelmed by guys and infatuated, and sometimes that can take away my focus from God (even at Christian events).
+ Even be wary of Christian guys as sometimes they distract you and all of a sudden your relationship is not as wholesome as it once was, and your miles away in your Christian faith from where you started.
+ Let God guide you.

Also maybe he got a new number.

Please be careful!

Hope this helps.

10-23-2008, 10:21 PM	#1
Gabry181 Gabry181 Edit AY! Newbie	Pssst Let me tell you something!!! lol. well ... ok, to make a long story short, my story's about this guy. Ok, I met him through my friend [[I won't go into details about how we met, but if you wanna know pm me or send me a message on my page]] ok. so as i was saying ... I then saw him again a while after which was summer 07. He was telling me how beautiful i am and all that other stuff. Me, on the other hand, was kinda playing hard to get. But anyways, he drove me home from school and he gave me his number. WONDERFUL THING about him is that one : he's CHRISTIAN and 2 : he's serious about being in a relationship with me. I haven't seen him in a while though, since last summer and yea, I know i had his number but when I called they said the number was disconnected. And NOW, I think about him. wow. lol. what could this be people??? I mean, I constantly pray about the guy i want and al, but Idk. Anyways, what should I do if I see him again??? laters && God Bless Gaby.
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10-23-2008, 10:25 PM	#2
dreamergirl818 dreamergirl818 is going to be 18!!!!! yay! Edit Child of the KING	Slap him for giving you the wrong number! Lol, not seriously I suggest.. hhhmm, actually, forget it, my advice wouldn't be worth much right now, as I'm going through some relationship problems. I'll just talk to you about it later. It's time for me to get off the computer anyway and crash into bed (not that I'll sleep mind you, but I ought to fake it at least ) I'll send you a PM about it tomorrow. __________________ Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice: And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you. Ephesians 4:31-32 Last edited by dreamergirl818; 10-24-2008 at 09:14 AM. Reason: spelling errors! urg! hate those things!
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10-24-2008, 11:48 AM	#3
HisEasterRising HisEasterRising Edit Disciple	Psst Let me tell you something!!! lol. Gaby, Here's what I have to say. I know, at least for me, I get caught up in the whole relationship/love thing. Which I feel is quite bad for me. I think and dwell on her moreso than I should. I do it in a positive way: Man! She is Beautiful! Or Wow! She opened up or whatever, the point is I idolize her. More often than not. I am not ready for a relationship and if that is the cost count me out. While I do not know you circumstances I know that for me being intentional about such a relationship is much more harmful than good. I try to focus more on God than that person, I try to lessen the intensity so to produce a friendish love rather than the other. Perhaps it is just me but it seems that you actually don't know him and he is still serious about a relationship, that sounds strange. I know in my case the only reason for me to be like that is if I have heard a lot of great things about her or I think she is very attractive. I am not trying to be dumb but to paint you a picture of what a man thinks. __________________ "'Fire Purifies and Blood Gives Life' "
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10-24-2008, 05:18 PM	#4
Gabry181 Gabry181 Edit AY! Newbie	I get what you mean, im not focusing on him more ... I focus on God more than I focus on him. I was just asking for everyone's opinion on that. =] but thanks for your afvice though. =]
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