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sharing_joy · 01-23-2006, 06:28 PM

Hey everyone whats up? Joy here, I would like everyones thoughts and opnions to what I'm bout to say.I'm having a rough time with life, I know God is here for me I read my word pray to Him and just try and get closer to Him. I find myself always reaching and and helping someone and pouring my love out to them and helping them get to know their savior. I see many people's lives changed and I love seeing be happy. Unfortunately, I'm having a difficult time in life right now. I guess its really hitting me that the person that raised me and loved me unconditionally is really gone. Waking up in the morning without her beautiful face and her touching the heart hugs, really makes me sad. She died in July its really hurting me, I try to hide it by being silly and acting happy all the time when deep down, its not me. So when things would come my way I was used to her solving my problems but also she was a firm believer in God I knew she didn't have long and she told me trust in God, He is your key to everything. Well now I'm getting to the point to where I'm losing weight, I'm small already and I can't stop crying, I think I need a good true friend that can help me through this time, some I can TRUST, I lost my trustfriend and confident due to suicide I feel really helpless, I don't know what to do, help please?

stellie · 01-23-2006, 06:52 PM

Joy, I am so sorry for your loss. I would suggest maybe going to see a christian counsellor to help you work through everything. And just keep going to God. I will be praying for you.

Sweet Pea · 01-24-2006, 03:17 AM

Joy, I'm sorry for your loss. (((hugs))) You'll be in my prayers, for sure. If you ever need to talk, remember I'll be here...(((hugs)))

Psalms4511 · 01-24-2006, 03:09 PM

My heart cries with you. I lost my best friend, my grandmother a year and a half ago. The hole is still there.. but know that it gets a little easier. The crying and hurting fades and you begin to appreciate the happy memories you had. But at this time in your life you're going to feel like everything reminds you of her and that it just causes more hurting.

2 Corinthians 4:7-9 NIV "But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down but not destroyed."

I my favorite quote thus far goes something like this: "The times where you only see one pair of footsteps in the sand are the times that God carries you." He will never leave you or forsake you. He's your best friend, your confidant, your comfort and your strength. Cling to Him and never let go. When earthly possessions and people leave, He's still there holding you.

Isaiah 40:6B-8 NIV "All men are like grass, and their glory is like the flowers of the field. The grass withers and the flowers fall, because the breath of the Lord bows on them. Surely the people are grass. The grass withers and the flowers fall but the word of our God stands forever." Then later in the chapter it says:

29-31 "He gives strength to the weary and increses the poer of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint."

If you ever need someone to talk to... i'm here. PM me and get my messengers if you need to

I'm praying for you!

GodDreamer · 01-24-2006, 05:19 PM

hey sweetie....i'm so sorry to hear about your loss. i can't even begin to imagine what you're going through. my prayers are with you. if you ever need to talk you can always pm me.

love and prayers
Alisha

HaveFaith2005 · 01-24-2006, 05:26 PM

I'm sorry, Joy

sharing_joy · 01-25-2006, 06:55 AM

Thanks everyone for the enc ouragement and suggestions. (((hugs)))

Heaven's Naginata · 01-26-2006, 08:30 PM

Joy, you sound like a sweet and fun loving girl. Spreading the word of God to help change people for the better is a wonderful gift. You're name says it all you know

. I'm very sorry about your loss

. This person sounds like a woman of faith. You must know that she is much happier than she has ever been right now. That and moving on is the first step. Next is to talk to God about it. He'll surely get you through a tough time such as this. You are infinately more important to God than any church or temple. Without YOU, there would'nt be anyone to worship him in that church or temple. Yes, you mean that much. So don't be down, be joyful Joy

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~*LiveByFaith*~ · 01-26-2006, 10:14 PM

Joy, i'm so sorry for your loss. I don't have much advice to offer...but i do know that God will always be there for you. He is always there to love you, to care for you, to be there for you in everything. Jesus will always be the best friend you can ever have. He will never leave you, never forsake you. Always remember that even when it feels like nobody is left, like you're alone in the world, you will always have the Lord to carry you through. You are such a precious child of God. Cry out to Him, honey, and He will provide for you.

Lord, be with Joy as she is struggling. Be her best friend. Show her how much You love her, and guide her through. Lord, remind her always that You will never leave her side. Lord, also, if it is Your will, place people in her life to be her confidants. Thank You so much for being such an amazing God who provides for Your children. In Jesus' name i pray, Amen.

diamarie · 02-05-2006, 02:24 PM

My condolences Joy.
She'd made a choice, and now you have to live on and bear it.
I'm praying for you.

01-23-2006, 06:28 PM	#1
sharing_joy sharing_joy I love you Guys!! Edit Evangelist/Missionary	I really need ya'll Hey everyone whats up? Joy here, I would like everyones thoughts and opnions to what I'm bout to say.I'm having a rough time with life, I know God is here for me I read my word pray to Him and just try and get closer to Him. I find myself always reaching and and helping someone and pouring my love out to them and helping them get to know their savior. I see many people's lives changed and I love seeing be happy. Unfortunately, I'm having a difficult time in life right now. I guess its really hitting me that the person that raised me and loved me unconditionally is really gone. Waking up in the morning without her beautiful face and her touching the heart hugs, really makes me sad. She died in July its really hurting me, I try to hide it by being silly and acting happy all the time when deep down, its not me. So when things would come my way I was used to her solving my problems but also she was a firm believer in God I knew she didn't have long and she told me trust in God, He is your key to everything. Well now I'm getting to the point to where I'm losing weight, I'm small already and I can't stop crying, I think I need a good true friend that can help me through this time, some I can TRUST, I lost my trustfriend and confident due to suicide I feel really helpless, I don't know what to do, help please?
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01-23-2006, 06:52 PM	#2
stellie stellie just is! Edit Evangelist/Missionary	Joy, I am so sorry for your loss. I would suggest maybe going to see a christian counsellor to help you work through everything. And just keep going to God. I will be praying for you. __________________ "Great faith is the product of great fights. Great testimonies are the outcome of great tests. Great triumphs can only come out of great trials." - Smith Wigglesworth
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01-24-2006, 03:17 AM	#3
Sweet Pea Sweet Pea Edit Apostle	Joy, I'm sorry for your loss. (((hugs))) You'll be in my prayers, for sure. If you ever need to talk, remember I'll be here...(((hugs))) __________________ ~Kerine~ God does NOT make mistakes.
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01-24-2006, 03:09 PM	#4
Psalms4511 Psalms4511 Edit AY! Newbie	My heart cries with you. I lost my best friend, my grandmother a year and a half ago. The hole is still there.. but know that it gets a little easier. The crying and hurting fades and you begin to appreciate the happy memories you had. But at this time in your life you're going to feel like everything reminds you of her and that it just causes more hurting. 2 Corinthians 4:7-9 NIV "But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down but not destroyed." I my favorite quote thus far goes something like this: "The times where you only see one pair of footsteps in the sand are the times that God carries you." He will never leave you or forsake you. He's your best friend, your confidant, your comfort and your strength. Cling to Him and never let go. When earthly possessions and people leave, He's still there holding you. Isaiah 40:6B-8 NIV "All men are like grass, and their glory is like the flowers of the field. The grass withers and the flowers fall, because the breath of the Lord bows on them. Surely the people are grass. The grass withers and the flowers fall but the word of our God stands forever." Then later in the chapter it says: 29-31 "He gives strength to the weary and increses the poer of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint." If you ever need someone to talk to... i'm here. PM me and get my messengers if you need to I'm praying for you! __________________ Heck yes I'm a princess!
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01-24-2006, 05:19 PM	#5
GodDreamer GodDreamer Edit Apostle	hey sweetie....i'm so sorry to hear about your loss. i can't even begin to imagine what you're going through. my prayers are with you. if you ever need to talk you can always pm me. love and prayers Alisha __________________ True beauty is when one can still smile through all of life's tears. "The bible is alive, it speaks to me" ~Martin Luther "Nobody ever died of laughter." ~Max Beerbohm "If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were." "Live as though Christ died yesterday, rose from the grave today, and is coming back tomorrow."
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01-24-2006, 05:26 PM	#6
HaveFaith2005 HaveFaith2005 is in your extened network. Edit Have a great day!	I'm sorry, Joy __________________ Have a blesse New Year!
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01-25-2006, 06:55 AM	#7
sharing_joy sharing_joy I love you Guys!! Edit Evangelist/Missionary	Thanks everyone for the enc ouragement and suggestions. (((hugs)))
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01-26-2006, 08:30 PM	#8
Heaven's Naginata Heaven's Naginata Edit Evangelist/Missionary	Joy, you sound like a sweet and fun loving girl. Spreading the word of God to help change people for the better is a wonderful gift. You're name says it all you know. I'm very sorry about your loss. This person sounds like a woman of faith. You must know that she is much happier than she has ever been right now. That and moving on is the first step. Next is to talk to God about it. He'll surely get you through a tough time such as this. You are infinately more important to God than any church or temple. Without YOU, there would'nt be anyone to worship him in that church or temple. Yes, you mean that much. So don't be down, be joyful Joy.
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01-26-2006, 10:14 PM	#9
~LiveByFaith~ ~LiveByFaith~ Edit Evangelist/Missionary	Joy, i'm so sorry for your loss. I don't have much advice to offer...but i do know that God will always be there for you. He is always there to love you, to care for you, to be there for you in everything. Jesus will always be the best friend you can ever have. He will never leave you, never forsake you. Always remember that even when it feels like nobody is left, like you're alone in the world, you will always have the Lord to carry you through. You are such a precious child of God. Cry out to Him, honey, and He will provide for you. Lord, be with Joy as she is struggling. Be her best friend. Show her how much You love her, and guide her through. Lord, remind her always that You will never leave her side. Lord, also, if it is Your will, place people in her life to be her confidants. Thank You so much for being such an amazing God who provides for Your children. In Jesus' name i pray, Amen. __________________ The greatest single cause of atheism in the world today is Christians, who acknowledge Jesus with their lips, and walk out the door, and deny him with their life style. That is what an unbelieving world simply finds unbelievable. ~Brennan Manning "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight." ~Proverbs 3:5-6 Need prayer? Send me a private message and I will be happy to pray for you!
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02-05-2006, 02:24 PM	#10
diamarie diamarie Edit Disciple	My condolences Joy. She'd made a choice, and now you have to live on and bear it. I'm praying for you.
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