insecurities

07-30-2005, 10:15 PM

why do we have the whole teen insecurities? i hate them im 13 almost 14 2 WEEKS AND 6 DAYS anyways.. i always feel like im not pretty enough because most of my friends who are younger then me have had BFs (at this age does it even count as a BF?) already and i know i dont need a BF yet but its really weird...but i only have these problems when im on the internet late on saturday nights WELL WILL IT EEEEEEEEND?

PureOxygen · 07-30-2005, 11:21 PM

Hey, you're doin fine

I didn't have a bf until I was 18.

You are made in God's image, and more than pretty enough for Him

Keep praisin, beautiful!

sKybLue · 08-01-2005, 09:28 PM

i have that problem too.. ironically (or not!).. it comes hand in hand with biological reasons.. the monthly cycle.. it affects our mood swings, hormones, and whatnot.. so basically at that time of the month when i'm feeling real lousy, i know that it's just a phase.. it'll pass..

as for it being on a saturday night.. i'm taking a guess that all your friends are out on dates on that night? and it kinda rubs in on you cuz you're like, alone at home, online, on a SATURDAY NIGHT!!! well, i guess you could perhaps go hangout with your friends who doesn't have a date that night.. or go watch a movie with your family or siblings or cousins.. or just do something you like!

MyJoyOverflows · 08-01-2005, 11:29 PM

It's totally normal for you to have insecurities...I have had and still have them...I think that it's something that CAN go away in time...but doesn't always...pray about it....God created you in Him image...He's beautiful, so are you!!! You don't need a boyfriend to make you feel attractive...you are beautiful!! *hugs*

HeavenBound · 08-01-2005, 11:35 PM

We ALL go through it it's normal.
Everybody I know is "teeny tiny", and sometimes that bugs me, it's like being around them is intimidating. But, you gotta remember that God created you, He luvs you, He thinks you're beautiful.

I know 7 year olds who have bf's, but they are NOT their bf's.
God will let you know when the time is right to have a bf, I know I WANT a bf, but I definately DO NOT need one right now.... 'cause of my age, maturity level, and I don't need one right now anyway...

You're not the only one.

07-30-2005, 10:15 PM	#1
ThePinkPunk ThePinkPunk Edit Guest	insecurities why do we have the whole teen insecurities? i hate them im 13 almost 14 2 WEEKS AND 6 DAYS anyways.. i always feel like im not pretty enough because most of my friends who are younger then me have had BFs (at this age does it even count as a BF?) already and i know i dont need a BF yet but its really weird...but i only have these problems when im on the internet late on saturday nights WELL WILL IT EEEEEEEEND?

07-30-2005, 11:21 PM	#2
PureOxygen PureOxygen Edit Super Moderator	Hey, you're doin fine I didn't have a bf until I was 18. You are made in God's image, and more than pretty enough for Him Keep praisin, beautiful! __________________ "Therefore, my dear brothers, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain." -1 Corinthians 15:58 (NIV)
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08-01-2005, 09:28 PM	#3
sKybLue sKybLue Edit His Masterpiece..	i have that problem too.. ironically (or not!).. it comes hand in hand with biological reasons.. the monthly cycle.. it affects our mood swings, hormones, and whatnot.. so basically at that time of the month when i'm feeling real lousy, i know that it's just a phase.. it'll pass.. as for it being on a saturday night.. i'm taking a guess that all your friends are out on dates on that night? and it kinda rubs in on you cuz you're like, alone at home, online, on a SATURDAY NIGHT!!! well, i guess you could perhaps go hangout with your friends who doesn't have a date that night.. or go watch a movie with your family or siblings or cousins.. or just do something you like! __________________ May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in Your sight O Lord, my Rock and my Redeemer. New Quiz on Ruth
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08-01-2005, 11:29 PM	#4
MyJoyOverflows MyJoyOverflows Edit Prophet/Prophetess	It's totally normal for you to have insecurities...I have had and still have them...I think that it's something that CAN go away in time...but doesn't always...pray about it....God created you in Him image...He's beautiful, so are you!!! You don't need a boyfriend to make you feel attractive...you are beautiful!! hugs
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08-01-2005, 11:35 PM	#5
HeavenBound HeavenBound Edit Prophet/Prophetess	We ALL go through it it's normal. Everybody I know is "teeny tiny", and sometimes that bugs me, it's like being around them is intimidating. But, you gotta remember that God created you, He luvs you, He thinks you're beautiful. I know 7 year olds who have bf's, but they are NOT their bf's. God will let you know when the time is right to have a bf, I know I WANT a bf, but I definately DO NOT need one right now.... 'cause of my age, maturity level, and I don't need one right now anyway... You're not the only one. __________________ "We have just enough Religion to make us HATE, but not enough to make us LOVE one Another..." -Jonathan Swift Who could hate a Man, who thought about YOU on the Cross?
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