Turned on...the wrong way

Lizzy · 07-24-2005, 08:22 PM

guys, its obavious from what iv read that guys seem to get WAY turned on at things III would just consider 'cute' or 'in style'. but can u guys tell me exactly what clothing and actions make you lust so i can AVOID that?

07-24-2005, 09:00 PM

Short answer: No.
If you read through this forum, not all guys are created equal. Some of us are turned on by things that some others of us wouldn't bat an eyelash at. My best advice is to make sure you have at least short sleeves, high necklines, and things that cover your legs down to at least the knees. That should be enough for the majority of guys. Oh, yeah, and make sure your clothes cover your back, too - backless dresses are kind of a stumbling block, too.

christsgirly · 07-26-2005, 09:06 PM

I went to this modesty class once,and this teacher(female)said that guys(in general)were pulled into lustful thoughts if you wore bright colors,earings,or anklets.Everybody thinks she's insane.I don't no to believe her or not.What do you guys think?

HeavenBound · 07-26-2005, 09:25 PM

Bright colors rock, they may draw attention, but that would suck if you only wore black, white, and neutral colors, and if you just got your ears pierced you have no choice but to keep 'em in unless you want them to grow over, and earrings rock, anklets are cute, the teacher has a WAAAAAY off opinion on this. No offense!

christsgirly · 07-26-2005, 09:29 PM

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Originally Posted by HeavenBound

Bright colors rock, they may draw attention, but that would suck if you only wore black, white, and neutral colors, and if you just got your ears pierced you have no choice but to keep 'em in unless you want them to grow over, and earrings rock, anklets are cute, the teacher has a WAAAAAY off opinion on this. No offense!

See,I kinda agree with you,but I was thinking that isn't the point of modesty NOT to put attention on yourself?Wouldn't those things do that?I still am confused.

Lizzy · 07-26-2005, 10:32 PM

Like maybe if u wore a neutral colored shirt, and u bent over your skin wouldn't be so obvious, but it would be with a bright colored shirt. Is that what she meant, u think? anyway, im not a guy, but those ideas DO sound kind of bogus...

07-27-2005, 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by christsgirly

I went to this modesty class once,and this teacher(female)said that guys(in general)were pulled into lustful thoughts if you wore bright colors,earings,or anklets.Everybody thinks she's insane.I don't no to believe her or not.What do you guys think?

Patent nonsense. I think the teacher of this particular class needs a good reality check. Lustful thoughts have little to do with the clothes, and more to do with what the clothes aren't hiding.

free.your.mind · 07-27-2005, 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by christsgirly

I went to this modesty class once,and this teacher(female)said that guys(in general)were pulled into lustful thoughts if you wore bright colors,earings,or anklets.Everybody thinks she's insane.I don't no to believe her or not.What do you guys think?

Yeah, she's insane.

MyJoyOverflows · 07-27-2005, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by free.your.mind

Yeah, she's insane.

haha, I was thinking along those lines...but I didn't want to say anything...'cause I'm a chick...so what would I know! =P

christsgirly · 07-27-2005, 11:32 AM

Good to know.I have a large church,and the majority of the youth group gals went there.We were all really confused.Now I can rest some at ease.It's just when it comes from a speaker's mouth you are suppose to believe it,ya know?
Anyway,thanks!

07-24-2005, 08:22 PM	#1
Lizzy Lizzy Edit AY! Newbie	Turned on...the wrong way guys, its obavious from what iv read that guys seem to get WAY turned on at things III would just consider 'cute' or 'in style'. but can u guys tell me exactly what clothing and actions make you lust so i can AVOID that?
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07-26-2005, 09:06 PM	#3
christsgirly christsgirly knows God as Savior! Edit Prophet/Prophetess	I went to this modesty class once,and this teacher(female)said that guys(in general)were pulled into lustful thoughts if you wore bright colors,earings,or anklets.Everybody thinks she's insane.I don't no to believe her or not.What do you guys think? __________________ We often make life altering decisions because we live for the moment and not for the days ahead.-Brooke Broussard
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07-26-2005, 09:25 PM	#4
HeavenBound HeavenBound Edit Prophet/Prophetess	Bright colors rock, they may draw attention, but that would suck if you only wore black, white, and neutral colors, and if you just got your ears pierced you have no choice but to keep 'em in unless you want them to grow over, and earrings rock, anklets are cute, the teacher has a WAAAAAY off opinion on this. No offense! __________________ "We have just enough Religion to make us HATE, but not enough to make us LOVE one Another..." -Jonathan Swift Who could hate a Man, who thought about YOU on the Cross?
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07-26-2005, 10:32 PM	#6
Lizzy Lizzy Edit AY! Newbie	Like maybe if u wore a neutral colored shirt, and u bent over your skin wouldn't be so obvious, but it would be with a bright colored shirt. Is that what she meant, u think? anyway, im not a guy, but those ideas DO sound kind of bogus...
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07-27-2005, 11:32 AM	#10
christsgirly christsgirly knows God as Savior! Edit Prophet/Prophetess	Good to know.I have a large church,and the majority of the youth group gals went there.We were all really confused.Now I can rest some at ease.It's just when it comes from a speaker's mouth you are suppose to believe it,ya know? Anyway,thanks! __________________ We often make life altering decisions because we live for the moment and not for the days ahead.-Brooke Broussard
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07-24-2005, 09:00 PM	#2
Demolition Man Demolition Man Edit Guest	Short answer: No. If you read through this forum, not all guys are created equal. Some of us are turned on by things that some others of us wouldn't bat an eyelash at. My best advice is to make sure you have at least short sleeves, high necklines, and things that cover your legs down to at least the knees. That should be enough for the majority of guys. Oh, yeah, and make sure your clothes cover your back, too - backless dresses are kind of a stumbling block, too.