pledges, anyone?

savedbygrace · 07-14-2005, 09:05 PM

hey guys! i have a LITTLE problem. jk. actually its pretty big. ummmm. yeah, well any of you who have read the few posts that ive written know that i have made a pledge not to date until after i graduate from h.s. well, if you do the math im only going to be a sophomore next year. i have never had a bf, but i have had many crushes in my time and it gets really funny. okay, but heres the kicker. theres this guy that i go to camp with. hes REALLY REALLY nice and i like him a lot. i think im starting to get a full blown crush on this guy and like we're good friends and stuff. im afraid that he is going to figure me out and that hes going to ask me out. the thing is he doesnt know about my pledge. he doesnt know that i dont want to get involved with anyone. sooooo i really dont know what to do and i have to see him tomorrow!!! eek!!! so if anyone could help me pronto. i would mucho appreciate. guys your opinions are welcome too. im just really nervous. and even if you dont reply, could you pray for me? Thanks!
Love,
Ashley

07-14-2005, 09:12 PM

I'll be sure to pray for you, hon. The thing to do is this: If he asks you out, tell him about your pledge and that yeah, you like him, but you want to wait to date. If he's a good guy, he will understand. If he doesn't or he isn't willing to wait, well, you may want to get rid of your crush, because he's not worth your time. If he doesn't ask you out, then don't worry about it, just have a good time and enjoy his friendship.

LauraNicole · 07-14-2005, 09:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Demolition Man

I'll be sure to pray for you, hon. The thing to do is this: If he asks you out, tell him about your pledge and that yeah, you like him, but you want to wait to date. If he's a good guy, he will understand. If he doesn't or he isn't willing to wait, well, you may want to get rid of your crush, because he's not worth your time. If he doesn't ask you out, then don't worry about it, just have a good time and enjoy his friendship.

Amen to that. If he won't wait for you, he isn't worth your time. Maybe you could just kind of chant some rhyme in your mind... let's see..... ah ha!! No wait, no date. hehe that's kind of good.. anyways. It's your pledge, it's your heart. I'll be praying for ya sister. much love to you.

savedbygrace · 07-14-2005, 09:37 PM

thank you soooo much laura nikky! that little rhyme is cute! and really kinda funny! thanks!
Love,
Ashley

HaveFaith2005 · 07-14-2005, 10:42 PM

If he doesn't like you for who you are, hes not worth it.

07-14-2005, 09:05 PM	#1
savedbygrace savedbygrace Edit AY! Newbie	pledges, anyone? hey guys! i have a LITTLE problem. jk. actually its pretty big. ummmm. yeah, well any of you who have read the few posts that ive written know that i have made a pledge not to date until after i graduate from h.s. well, if you do the math im only going to be a sophomore next year. i have never had a bf, but i have had many crushes in my time and it gets really funny. okay, but heres the kicker. theres this guy that i go to camp with. hes REALLY REALLY nice and i like him a lot. i think im starting to get a full blown crush on this guy and like we're good friends and stuff. im afraid that he is going to figure me out and that hes going to ask me out. the thing is he doesnt know about my pledge. he doesnt know that i dont want to get involved with anyone. sooooo i really dont know what to do and i have to see him tomorrow!!! eek!!! so if anyone could help me pronto. i would mucho appreciate. guys your opinions are welcome too. im just really nervous. and even if you dont reply, could you pray for me? Thanks! Love, Ashley
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07-14-2005, 09:37 PM	#4
savedbygrace savedbygrace Edit AY! Newbie	thank you soooo much laura nikky! that little rhyme is cute! and really kinda funny! thanks! Love, Ashley
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HaveFaith2005 HaveFaith2005 is in your extened network. Edit Have a great day!	If he doesn't like you for who you are, hes not worth it. __________________ Have a blesse New Year!
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07-14-2005, 09:12 PM	#2
Demolition Man Demolition Man Edit Guest	I'll be sure to pray for you, hon. The thing to do is this: If he asks you out, tell him about your pledge and that yeah, you like him, but you want to wait to date. If he's a good guy, he will understand. If he doesn't or he isn't willing to wait, well, you may want to get rid of your crush, because he's not worth your time. If he doesn't ask you out, then don't worry about it, just have a good time and enjoy his friendship.