Girls How would you react?

who is like God · 07-01-2005, 05:01 PM

When you answer can you please say how old you are also. Girls how would you feel if you think a guy is attractive and then he talks to you and asks you out. You give him your number and he calls you but is stupid in a way and doesn't say what he should say and stuff like that when he leaves you a message. Then he calls you again and is nervous when leaving you a message. You end up not calling him back and then he doesn't call you again or so you think. Then he calls you after a little more than a month of not seeing you because college has ended. He is very nice and says what he should have said in the first place then after the month. Would you give him a chance and go out with him or no? Also would you feel that he likes you alot (even though he doesn't know you that well) to have called after that amount of time or would you be freaked out by that or what? Also would you go out with him too when he asks you to with all that time going by of not seeing or talking to him? Why also would you think that he waited so long to call you again? He was busy? Away? or What?

Wise Counselor · 07-01-2005, 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by who is like God

When you answer can you please say how old you are also. Girls how would you feel if you think a guy is attractive and then he talks to you and asks you out. You give him your number and he calls you but is stupid in a way and doesn't say what he should say and stuff like that when he leaves you a message. Then he calls you again and is nervous when leaving you a message. You end up not calling him back and then he doesn't call you again or so you think. Then he calls you after a little more than a month of not seeing you because college has ended. He is very nice and says what he should have said in the first place then after the month. Would you give him a chance and go out with him or no? Also would you feel that he likes you alot (even though he doesn't know you that well) to have called after that amount of time or would you be freaked out by that or what? Also would you go out with him too when he asks you to with all that time going by of not seeing or talking to him? Why also would you think that he waited so long to call you again? He was busy? Away? or What?

I'm 17. Yes, I'd give him another chance. I'd think he does like me to reach me after that long a period. I'd probably wait to know him atleast a little better before a serious date, but I'd hang out with him and pursue a friendship first. I'd think he waited because he was scared, forgot, or busy. The first thing, I'd think immediatley after he stopped communication is that he may have changed his mind, especially after time passed or think he forgot.

joy-girl · 07-01-2005, 05:28 PM

i'm 15

yeah, i'd do the same things as wise counselor.

except, i would probably be concerned that i had caused him to dislike me...

soldierforJesus · 07-01-2005, 07:45 PM

i'm 15, yea i'd prolly give him a second chance. but wat do you mean when you say that he didn't say what he "should have" the first time. call be foolish, but wat should he should have said, he could have just been nervous.

christsgirly · 07-01-2005, 08:24 PM

Well,I wouldn't go out with him because I would think he was too nervous which would make me nervous...but don't let that get you down!lol

(BTW I'm only 14,and have absolutely no experience with guys!lol)

MyJoyOverflows · 07-03-2005, 12:08 AM

I'm 17 and I'm around guys a lot. I think that nervous and shy guys are extremely attractive!! I don't know why...hehe...but anyway, of course I would give him a second chance! I'd be all for it!!! Nervousness is usually a sign that the guy really likes the girl...I think that it's very sweet!! Maybe I'm strange...I don't know!!

07-03-2005, 01:53 AM

Whoah ton of questions!!!
(I am 18 )

Honestly, I would melt completely if a guy left a messege for me and he sounded nervous.
I would be like "oh my gosh he's worried about impressing me! That is so sweet".
(course some girl's could be different)
But if we never made contact, I'd feel kinda disappointed (that is if I had some intrest, even the tiniest bit in him).
But then say he does call a month later, acts all confidant and stuff, I would wonder a lot about what's going on.

What really is cool to me is if the guy is really honest.
"Yeah I was super nervous when I called ____________" (add some nice compliment there if you want to).
And then apoligize for not making contact then ask if I want to know why he didn't make much contact recently.

But yeah sure, I would be fine.

Ed · 07-03-2005, 01:05 PM

i echo the earlier q of what were you meant to say but didnt? theres no rules - each to what is themselves - dont try to be something your not.

18 - think that i'd be impressed he rang a month later - shows still interested!

~*Amy*~ · 07-06-2005, 03:30 PM

well, Im 18 and I agree with everyone here

I would give him another chance and wouldnt think much of the fact that he was nervous. Chances are, Id be quite nervous myself

sari58 · 07-06-2005, 05:15 PM

17- it really depends on my impression of him...if he just said stupid nervous stuff then yeah i'd give him a second chance...i agree with princess i be thrilled if he was nervous b/c he was trying to impress me. if he said just ignorant stuff then probably not....sorry but no...
if he didn't call for awhile i'd probably figure he thought he made a complete idiot of himself and wanted to try again when he cooled off a bit. and again in that case yeah i'd give him a second chance...

07-01-2005, 05:01 PM	#1
who is like God who is like God Edit Disciple	Girls How would you react? When you answer can you please say how old you are also. Girls how would you feel if you think a guy is attractive and then he talks to you and asks you out. You give him your number and he calls you but is stupid in a way and doesn't say what he should say and stuff like that when he leaves you a message. Then he calls you again and is nervous when leaving you a message. You end up not calling him back and then he doesn't call you again or so you think. Then he calls you after a little more than a month of not seeing you because college has ended. He is very nice and says what he should have said in the first place then after the month. Would you give him a chance and go out with him or no? Also would you feel that he likes you alot (even though he doesn't know you that well) to have called after that amount of time or would you be freaked out by that or what? Also would you go out with him too when he asks you to with all that time going by of not seeing or talking to him? Why also would you think that he waited so long to call you again? He was busy? Away? or What?
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07-01-2005, 05:28 PM	#3
joy-girl joy-girl Edit Prophet/Prophetess	i'm 15 yeah, i'd do the same things as wise counselor. except, i would probably be concerned that i had caused him to dislike me... __________________ Sona si latine loqueris!! http://www.therebelution.com/ “I believe in Christianity as I believe that the sun has risen: not only because I see it, but because by it I see everything else.” -CS Lewis
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07-01-2005, 07:45 PM	#4
soldierforJesus soldierforJesus Edit on Gods mission	i'm 15, yea i'd prolly give him a second chance. but wat do you mean when you say that he didn't say what he "should have" the first time. call be foolish, but wat should he should have said, he could have just been nervous. __________________ No walls - embrace a world as one, where music will guide us, guitars instead of guns. ~Hyde, Mission~ †'For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the Lord. 'Plans to prosper you, plans to give you a hope and a future, and not to harm you.'† ~Jeremiah 29:11~ †Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.† ~Proverbs 31:30~ †Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.† ~Hebrews 11:1~
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07-01-2005, 08:24 PM	#5
christsgirly christsgirly knows God as Savior! Edit Prophet/Prophetess	Well,I wouldn't go out with him because I would think he was too nervous which would make me nervous...but don't let that get you down!lol (BTW I'm only 14,and have absolutely no experience with guys!lol)
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07-03-2005, 12:08 AM	#6
MyJoyOverflows MyJoyOverflows Edit Prophet/Prophetess	I'm 17 and I'm around guys a lot. I think that nervous and shy guys are extremely attractive!! I don't know why...hehe...but anyway, of course I would give him a second chance! I'd be all for it!!! Nervousness is usually a sign that the guy really likes the girl...I think that it's very sweet!! Maybe I'm strange...I don't know!!
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07-03-2005, 01:53 AM	#7
Princess Princess Edit Guest	Whoah ton of questions!!! (I am 18 ) Honestly, I would melt completely if a guy left a messege for me and he sounded nervous. I would be like "oh my gosh he's worried about impressing me! That is so sweet". (course some girl's could be different) But if we never made contact, I'd feel kinda disappointed (that is if I had some intrest, even the tiniest bit in him). But then say he does call a month later, acts all confidant and stuff, I would wonder a lot about what's going on. What really is cool to me is if the guy is really honest. "Yeah I was super nervous when I called ____________" (add some nice compliment there if you want to). And then apoligize for not making contact then ask if I want to know why he didn't make much contact recently. But yeah sure, I would be fine.

07-03-2005, 01:05 PM	#8
Ed Ed Edit Prophet/Prophetess	i echo the earlier q of what were you meant to say but didnt? theres no rules - each to what is themselves - dont try to be something your not. 18 - think that i'd be impressed he rang a month later - shows still interested!
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07-06-2005, 03:30 PM	#9
~Amy~ ~Amy~ Edit Prophet/Prophetess	well, Im 18 and I agree with everyone here I would give him another chance and wouldnt think much of the fact that he was nervous. Chances are, Id be quite nervous myself __________________ . ·'´)For Zions sake I will not keep silent-Isaiah 62:1 ¸.·´¸.·´¨) ¸.·¨) (¸.·´ (¸.·´ ¸.·´ ¸.·´¸.·`·-»JesusFreak (¸.·
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07-06-2005, 05:15 PM	#10
sari58 sari58 Edit Disciple	17- it really depends on my impression of him...if he just said stupid nervous stuff then yeah i'd give him a second chance...i agree with princess i be thrilled if he was nervous b/c he was trying to impress me. if he said just ignorant stuff then probably not....sorry but no... if he didn't call for awhile i'd probably figure he thought he made a complete idiot of himself and wanted to try again when he cooled off a bit. and again in that case yeah i'd give him a second chance...
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