So many girls asking questions

06-30-2005, 09:54 PM

Let's say you've been friends with a girl for years and years (sound familiar?)
And you've never made a move on her (flirting maybe or asked her out)
So this mean that for sure your not romantically interested in her?

06-30-2005, 10:02 PM

Not necessarily. For me, I tend to flirt pretty obviously with girls I'm interested in, so if I've never flirted with someone or asked her out, it's a pretty safe bet that I'm not interested. Some other guys, they hide their feelings so well that the only for sure way to know is to ask them.

hannibal2003 · 07-01-2005, 12:49 AM

I'm gonna give you my opinion and then ask a question of my own so you can stop feeling guilty for posting here.

I personally tend to flirt alot with girls I'm interested in but I rarely have the guts to ask her out. I suppose it depends on whether or not she realises I'm flirting. and then some guys just aren't any fun and never flirt with anyone.
Now is when I sneak in a question of my own. If you ask a girl out and she says that she's not dating right now because she doesn't even have time for her friends(girls) but thanks for the offer and she'll talk to you later.(oddly specific,eh?) Does she not want to go out or do you think she is really just too busy and I should wait until she has more time? This question is to Princess and all the other girls that I know are lurking around the "sons" page.
thanks

,Josh

MyJoyOverflows · 07-01-2005, 01:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hannibal2003

I'm gonna give you my opinion and then ask a question of my own so you can stop feeling guilty for posting here.

I personally tend to flirt alot with girls I'm interested in but I rarely have the guts to ask her out. I suppose it depends on whether or not she realises I'm flirting. and then some guys just aren't any fun and never flirt with anyone.
Now is when I sneak in a question of my own. If you ask a girl out and she says that she's not dating right now because she doesn't even have time for her friends(girls) but thanks for the offer and she'll talk to you later.(oddly specific,eh?) Does she not want to go out or do you think she is really just too busy and I should wait until she has more time? This question is to Princess and all the other girls that I know are lurking around the "sons" page.
thanks

,Josh

well, I'll be honest with you, Josh...'cause that's the way that I am. *sigh*...a lot of times girls do say that so they can get out of it easily. In your case though, I'm not sure if that's the way that it is. She does sound like she's busy a lot, in this case, probably means that she is too busy for even her girl friends...*hugs*...I hope that you're okay with that. Please, keep me updated as to how things are going! I'm praying for you!!

justified · 07-01-2005, 08:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Princess

Let's say you've been friends with a girl for years and years (sound familiar?)
And you've never made a move on her (flirting maybe or asked her out)
So this mean that for sure your not romantically interested in her?

One thing I know is that nothing is for sure. I don't usually flirt with girls even if I like them. However, it doesn't mean that I don't like them. So I think that I can say that it will be different for every guy. I hope this answers your question.

07-01-2005, 02:29 PM

It just made you males more confusing Justified, but that's o.k. I'm no worse off...

Hannibal,
I also hate to admit it,
It's most likely she just plain doesn't want to date, she may like you as a friend, but I doubt she's romantically interested in you...
I'm really sorry.

BamaFan425 · 07-09-2005, 01:46 AM

I would have made some sort of "move" by now signaling her there would be some kind of interest. But this is not how all guys are and I know a few who dont do that. Some tend to wait until the girl makes some type of "move" or flirts with them. I dont know the reason why some do this but I do have another perspective. Some guys dont wanna risk the friendship you have together. That friend that is your best girl friend (girl that is a friend) is so awesome. You can tell her anything, she wont go tell all her friends. And to risk losing that is ALOT. My best girl friend and me pretty much started as girlfriend and boyfriend. We didnt come in on a friend level but we started as b/f and g/f. And our relationship has GREW as friends ALOT. But when we broke up for the first time. I swear we didnt talk for 4-6 months and that tore me up inside and Im sure it tore her up too. But now we have gone out a few more times and broken up and become closer because of it. My advice from all this rambling.. if you two get involved PROMISE yourselves that you will not hold bad feelings or not talk to each other when/if you break up. It will help alot if you do that. Hold true to the promise.

jcdesertvoice · 07-09-2005, 08:11 AM

It's the Dating Game again.

HeavenBound · 07-09-2005, 12:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hannibal2003

I'm gonna give you my opinion and then ask a question of my own so you can stop feeling guilty for posting here.

I personally tend to flirt alot with girls I'm interested in but I rarely have the guts to ask her out. I suppose it depends on whether or not she realises I'm flirting. and then some guys just aren't any fun and never flirt with anyone.
Now is when I sneak in a question of my own. If you ask a girl out and she says that she's not dating right now because she doesn't even have time for her friends(girls) but thanks for the offer and she'll talk to you later.(oddly specific,eh?) Does she not want to go out or do you think she is really just too busy and I should wait until she has more time? This question is to Princess and all the other girls that I know are lurking around the "sons" page.
thanks

,Josh

Josh,
Most of the time it means she doesn't wanna go out with you, or she's not interested.
UNLESS, a really "differen't" girl uses that "I don't like you line", and really means that she's busy, and IS concidering going out with you. But, usually it means she doesn't wanna go out with you....SORRY

iluvsummer · 07-11-2005, 05:19 AM

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Originally Posted by justified

One thing I know is that nothing is for sure. I don't usually flirt with girls even if I like them. However, it doesn't mean that I don't like them. So I think that I can say that it will be different for every guy. I hope this answers your question.

How do you show girls that you are interested, Justified. I agree with Princess in saying that I am getting more and more confused.

06-30-2005, 09:54 PM	#1
Princess Princess Edit Guest	So many girls asking questions Let's say you've been friends with a girl for years and years (sound familiar?) And you've never made a move on her (flirting maybe or asked her out) So this mean that for sure your not romantically interested in her?

07-01-2005, 12:49 AM	#3
hannibal2003 hannibal2003 Edit Fighting Priest	an answer and a question I'm gonna give you my opinion and then ask a question of my own so you can stop feeling guilty for posting here. I personally tend to flirt alot with girls I'm interested in but I rarely have the guts to ask her out. I suppose it depends on whether or not she realises I'm flirting. and then some guys just aren't any fun and never flirt with anyone. Now is when I sneak in a question of my own. If you ask a girl out and she says that she's not dating right now because she doesn't even have time for her friends(girls) but thanks for the offer and she'll talk to you later.(oddly specific,eh?) Does she not want to go out or do you think she is really just too busy and I should wait until she has more time? This question is to Princess and all the other girls that I know are lurking around the "sons" page. thanks ,Josh
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07-09-2005, 01:46 AM	#7
BamaFan425 BamaFan425 Edit AY! Newbie	I would have made some sort of "move" by now signaling her there would be some kind of interest. But this is not how all guys are and I know a few who dont do that. Some tend to wait until the girl makes some type of "move" or flirts with them. I dont know the reason why some do this but I do have another perspective. Some guys dont wanna risk the friendship you have together. That friend that is your best girl friend (girl that is a friend) is so awesome. You can tell her anything, she wont go tell all her friends. And to risk losing that is ALOT. My best girl friend and me pretty much started as girlfriend and boyfriend. We didnt come in on a friend level but we started as b/f and g/f. And our relationship has GREW as friends ALOT. But when we broke up for the first time. I swear we didnt talk for 4-6 months and that tore me up inside and Im sure it tore her up too. But now we have gone out a few more times and broken up and become closer because of it. My advice from all this rambling.. if you two get involved PROMISE yourselves that you will not hold bad feelings or not talk to each other when/if you break up. It will help alot if you do that. Hold true to the promise.
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07-09-2005, 08:11 AM	#8
jcdesertvoice jcdesertvoice Edit Prophet/Prophetess	It's the Dating Game again. __________________ Go ye into all the world and preach the gospel to every nation for you are a word out of the mouth of God and you will not return unto Him void.
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06-30-2005, 10:02 PM	#2
Demolition Man Demolition Man Edit Guest	Not necessarily. For me, I tend to flirt pretty obviously with girls I'm interested in, so if I've never flirted with someone or asked her out, it's a pretty safe bet that I'm not interested. Some other guys, they hide their feelings so well that the only for sure way to know is to ask them.

07-01-2005, 02:29 PM	#6
Princess Princess Edit Guest	It just made you males more confusing Justified, but that's o.k. I'm no worse off... Hannibal, I also hate to admit it, It's most likely she just plain doesn't want to date, she may like you as a friend, but I doubt she's romantically interested in you... I'm really sorry.