boyfriend/girlfriend relationships

keyboardmaster · 06-17-2005, 11:19 PM

I was wondering who would think is a best way to handle a relationship. Many guys and girls handle relationships wrong and rush them. Thinking they love each other when they don't yet. My question is what's the best to handle a relationship this is for both guys and girls. The do's and don't nothing bad but stuff that attracts women and stuff that makes them loose interest in that guy. And guys what would be things that would make you loose interest in a girl that your dating.

christsgirly · 06-17-2005, 11:26 PM

Well,not that I date yet,but I lose interest in a guy when he has no opinion of his own.It gets really annoying!

Damaris · 06-18-2005, 01:14 AM

I think the best way to handle a relationship is to keep your eyes fixed straight on God. If a relationship comes out of that, make sure it doesn't change your present course. If it begins to pull you off the track, then let go of the relationship and continue walking closer to God and in his will.

The worst way possible, I think, to handle relationships is to live life looking for relationships.

=)

Lizzy · 06-20-2005, 08:06 AM

I went out with a couple guys in 6th grade (i know, i know it was kind of puppy love). The thing was, I wasn't really into either of them, and even though we didn't do anything besides pass notes in school, it hurt to break up. I didn't even know one that well! I would say make sure you know the person REALLY well, and not just on physical attraction. The guy or girl should follow basically the same principles as you do too.
Hope this helps!! Lizzy

iluvsummer · 06-21-2005, 03:07 PM

In terms of keeping a girl interested in a relationship- I think that you just need to show her that you are interested in her. Like write her a letter just because, or buy her her favorite candy bar and leave it in her car (granted it is not 90 degrees outside). Don't go overboard- but a girl will keep her interest if she knows that she is wanted.

savedbygrace · 07-14-2005, 06:32 PM

i agree with a post someone made earlier about keeping your focus straight on God. when you put your future in his hands everything will work itself out. also i think that too many people push the dating scene period. i think people need to forget about dating while they are this young and just focus on building good strong christian friendships with the opposite sex. to be a friend with them, you dont have to date them. some people dont understand that.
Love,
Ashley

iluvsummer · 07-18-2005, 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by savedbygrace

i agree with a post someone made earlier about keeping your focus straight on God. when you put your future in his hands everything will work itself out. also i think that too many people push the dating scene period. i think people need to forget about dating while they are this young and just focus on building good strong christian friendships with the opposite sex. to be a friend with them, you dont have to date them. some people dont understand that.
Love,
Ashley

I agree that it is a waste of time to date when you are young, but the guy who asked the question is defenitly at an age where he can start dating with thoughts of marraige. I don't think that 20 is old enough to get married, but it is not too early to start looking. I don't think that he should just date anyone, but Christian women who he would consider marrying in the future.

07-19-2005, 10:59 AM

Yessss focus on God...

Depending on what type of relationship your going for.
Not everybody dates to marry I understand that.
But having similar morals helps for a healthy relationship, no matter what it is.

Also I agree with iluvsummer 110%
Girls love little surprises, never has to be overboard.
Her favorite candy bar dropped in her purse with a note.

Finding out her favorite type of lipstick, or lipgloss....and leaving it somewhere for her...oooh she'd melt reeeeeally quickly.
A rose outside her door.
A note left on her pillow.

Just real sweet things.

07-19-2005, 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Princess

Yessss focus on God...

Depending on what type of relationship your going for.
Not everybody dates to marry I understand that.
But having similar morals helps for a healthy relationship, no matter what it is.

Most definitely agreed. People with dissimilar morals often struggle with various things - for example, if he wants to kiss and she doesn't, then she's tempted to give in to satisfy him. That is unhealthy.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Princess

Also I agree with iluvsummer 110%
Girls love little surprises, never has to be overboard.
Her favorite candy bar dropped in her purse with a note.

Finding out her favorite type of lipstick, or lipgloss....and leaving it somewhere for her...oooh she'd melt reeeeeally quickly.
A rose outside her door.
A note left on her pillow.

Just real sweet things.

Duly noted.

WestleyNeverDies · 07-21-2005, 12:33 AM

My rule for dating is to never date a guy I can't see myself marrying. My youth intern is marrying his best friend- they have the best example of a pre-marital relationship I've ever seen! It's so clear that Jesus is the focus of their relationship, and they are able to love each other more because of that. It's beautiful.

06-17-2005, 11:19 PM	#1
keyboardmaster keyboardmaster Edit Disciple	boyfriend/girlfriend relationships I was wondering who would think is a best way to handle a relationship. Many guys and girls handle relationships wrong and rush them. Thinking they love each other when they don't yet. My question is what's the best to handle a relationship this is for both guys and girls. The do's and don't nothing bad but stuff that attracts women and stuff that makes them loose interest in that guy. And guys what would be things that would make you loose interest in a girl that your dating.
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06-17-2005, 11:26 PM	#2
christsgirly christsgirly knows God as Savior! Edit Prophet/Prophetess	Well,not that I date yet,but I lose interest in a guy when he has no opinion of his own.It gets really annoying!
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06-18-2005, 01:14 AM	#3
Damaris Damaris Edit servant	I think the best way to handle a relationship is to keep your eyes fixed straight on God. If a relationship comes out of that, make sure it doesn't change your present course. If it begins to pull you off the track, then let go of the relationship and continue walking closer to God and in his will. The worst way possible, I think, to handle relationships is to live life looking for relationships. =) __________________ Let my heart be fixed on Thee My Lord, my life, my love Linger near and gently lead To rapturous joys above.
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06-20-2005, 08:06 AM	#4
Lizzy Lizzy Edit AY! Newbie	I went out with a couple guys in 6th grade (i know, i know it was kind of puppy love). The thing was, I wasn't really into either of them, and even though we didn't do anything besides pass notes in school, it hurt to break up. I didn't even know one that well! I would say make sure you know the person REALLY well, and not just on physical attraction. The guy or girl should follow basically the same principles as you do too. Hope this helps!! Lizzy
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06-21-2005, 03:07 PM	#5
iluvsummer iluvsummer Edit Disciple	In terms of keeping a girl interested in a relationship- I think that you just need to show her that you are interested in her. Like write her a letter just because, or buy her her favorite candy bar and leave it in her car (granted it is not 90 degrees outside). Don't go overboard- but a girl will keep her interest if she knows that she is wanted.
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07-14-2005, 06:32 PM	#6
savedbygrace savedbygrace Edit AY! Newbie	i agree with a post someone made earlier about keeping your focus straight on God. when you put your future in his hands everything will work itself out. also i think that too many people push the dating scene period. i think people need to forget about dating while they are this young and just focus on building good strong christian friendships with the opposite sex. to be a friend with them, you dont have to date them. some people dont understand that. Love, Ashley
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07-19-2005, 10:59 AM	#8
Princess Princess Edit Guest	Yessss focus on God... Depending on what type of relationship your going for. Not everybody dates to marry I understand that. But having similar morals helps for a healthy relationship, no matter what it is. Also I agree with iluvsummer 110% Girls love little surprises, never has to be overboard. Her favorite candy bar dropped in her purse with a note. Finding out her favorite type of lipstick, or lipgloss....and leaving it somewhere for her...oooh she'd melt reeeeeally quickly. A rose outside her door. A note left on her pillow. Just real sweet things.

07-21-2005, 12:33 AM	#10
WestleyNeverDies WestleyNeverDies Edit AY! Newbie	My rule for dating is to never date a guy I can't see myself marrying. My youth intern is marrying his best friend- they have the best example of a pre-marital relationship I've ever seen! It's so clear that Jesus is the focus of their relationship, and they are able to love each other more because of that. It's beautiful.
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