Need To Be Loved

who is like God · 06-13-2005, 08:26 PM

I feel so much now that I need to be loved by a girl as a girlfriend. I don't have one now and I want one so much. I am 19 so that has to do with it. Also I feel that I want even more than a girlfriend soon, I mean marrying her and having children with her and spending my life with her. I don't know what caused me to feel like this so much but am kind of happy about it. I imagine about having a girlfriend and marrying her and having kids with her and all. I am sure this will also make me a better person as well. Do you at all feel like I do about needing love?
Michael

Damaris · 06-13-2005, 08:38 PM

I want to be loved that way, but I do not feel that it is a need in my life.

HaveFaith2005 · 06-13-2005, 09:30 PM

Your not the only one. Maybe a girl would come by your way. You never know. Someone special is out there for you. It just takes sometime.

Cookiemobsta · 06-13-2005, 09:47 PM

You don't need to be loved by a girl as a girlfriend. You need to be loved, period, but if you start looking for a girlfriend just so you can have a girlfriend, you're setting yourself up for a lot of heartache down the road. It's normal to want a girlfriend, but don't be fooled into thinking you need one to be happy; you don't. If you get a girlfriend just so you can have the girlfriend, your motives for the relationship are completely selfish: you want to date her just because she makes you feel loved. Dating shouldn't be about what you can harvest from the other person, it should be simply because you like the other person and want to spend time with them, get to know them and make them happy.

MyJoyOverflows · 06-14-2005, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Cookiemobsta

You don't need to be loved by a girl as a girlfriend. You need to be loved, period, but if you start looking for a girlfriend just so you can have a girlfriend, you're setting yourself up for a lot of heartache down the road. It's normal to want a girlfriend, but don't be fooled into thinking you need one to be happy; you don't. If you get a girlfriend just so you can have the girlfriend, your motives for the relationship are completely selfish: you want to date her just because she makes you feel loved. Dating shouldn't be about what you can harvest from the other person, it should be simply because you like the other person and want to spend time with them, get to know them and make them happy.

very well said!! I totally agree!

zippy · 06-15-2005, 09:28 PM

Yea i feal the same way, started think about geting a girlfriend but never realy felt like i should, more as i realy did not want to, so i started working and hanging out with friends and some of time i do want a girlfriend, but not as much any more, pluss im in TN for the summer so that prty much solved my problem for now. Just rember that God has one out there for you, you just need to be ready her(him)

HaveFaith2005 · 06-15-2005, 10:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Cookiemobsta

You don't need to be loved by a girl as a girlfriend. You need to be loved, period, but if you start looking for a girlfriend just so you can have a girlfriend, you're setting yourself up for a lot of heartache down the road. It's normal to want a girlfriend, but don't be fooled into thinking you need one to be happy; you don't. If you get a girlfriend just so you can have the girlfriend, your motives for the relationship are completely selfish: you want to date her just because she makes you feel loved. Dating shouldn't be about what you can harvest from the other person, it should be simply because you like the other person and want to spend time with them, get to know them and make them happy.

Its true want Cookiemobsta said. Why didn't I think of it?

Wise Counselor · 06-28-2005, 08:12 PM

You need to be sure you are completely recieving the Lord's love for you. The Lord's love will fill that need for love. Getting married and such is good and wanting to fall in love is too, but your first love should be God and you should be recieving it from Him, thus not feeling like you need someone to fill that void. If not, your relationships will be shallow and empty. They also won't work out because you're trying to fill your void for God's love with human love, which can definitely disappoint.

~*Amy*~ · 06-29-2005, 02:10 PM

I agree with cookiemobsta...well said btw

. I feel the same way sometimes though. Im so ready to get married and be with 'the one' for me. But it helps me to just pray for him and know that God has him just waiting for me out there. It helps

06-13-2005, 08:26 PM	#1
who is like God who is like God Edit Disciple	Need To Be Loved I feel so much now that I need to be loved by a girl as a girlfriend. I don't have one now and I want one so much. I am 19 so that has to do with it. Also I feel that I want even more than a girlfriend soon, I mean marrying her and having children with her and spending my life with her. I don't know what caused me to feel like this so much but am kind of happy about it. I imagine about having a girlfriend and marrying her and having kids with her and all. I am sure this will also make me a better person as well. Do you at all feel like I do about needing love? Michael
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06-13-2005, 08:38 PM	#2
Damaris Damaris Edit servant	I want to be loved that way, but I do not feel that it is a need in my life. __________________ Let my heart be fixed on Thee My Lord, my life, my love Linger near and gently lead To rapturous joys above.
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06-13-2005, 09:30 PM	#3
HaveFaith2005 HaveFaith2005 is in your extened network. Edit Have a great day!	Your not the only one. Maybe a girl would come by your way. You never know. Someone special is out there for you. It just takes sometime. __________________ Have a blesse New Year!
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06-13-2005, 09:47 PM	#4
Cookiemobsta Cookiemobsta Edit Prophet/Prophetess	You don't need to be loved by a girl as a girlfriend. You need to be loved, period, but if you start looking for a girlfriend just so you can have a girlfriend, you're setting yourself up for a lot of heartache down the road. It's normal to want a girlfriend, but don't be fooled into thinking you need one to be happy; you don't. If you get a girlfriend just so you can have the girlfriend, your motives for the relationship are completely selfish: you want to date her just because she makes you feel loved. Dating shouldn't be about what you can harvest from the other person, it should be simply because you like the other person and want to spend time with them, get to know them and make them happy. __________________ It's funny...we can be a liar, a cheat, a thief, a deceiver and a trickster with a foul mouth and a prideful spirit. We won't help the poor, and turn our faces in shame when we come across the needy and less fortunate But we'll still call ourselves "holy" because we keep our pants zipped up. Adding on to the hypocrisy, the Believers among us WHO DON'T keep their pants zipped still declare themselves to be "holy" because their intentions are directed towards the opposite sex. -http://www.hollywoodJesus.com/
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06-15-2005, 09:28 PM	#6
zippy zippy Edit AY! Newbie	Yea i feal the same way, started think about geting a girlfriend but never realy felt like i should, more as i realy did not want to, so i started working and hanging out with friends and some of time i do want a girlfriend, but not as much any more, pluss im in TN for the summer so that prty much solved my problem for now. Just rember that God has one out there for you, you just need to be ready her(him)
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06-28-2005, 08:12 PM	#8
Wise Counselor Wise Counselor Edit Disciple	You need to be sure you are completely recieving the Lord's love for you. The Lord's love will fill that need for love. Getting married and such is good and wanting to fall in love is too, but your first love should be God and you should be recieving it from Him, thus not feeling like you need someone to fill that void. If not, your relationships will be shallow and empty. They also won't work out because you're trying to fill your void for God's love with human love, which can definitely disappoint.
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06-29-2005, 02:10 PM	#9
~Amy~ ~Amy~ Edit Prophet/Prophetess	I agree with cookiemobsta...well said btw . I feel the same way sometimes though. Im so ready to get married and be with 'the one' for me. But it helps me to just pray for him and know that God has him just waiting for me out there. It helps __________________ . ·'´)For Zions sake I will not keep silent-Isaiah 62:1 ¸.·´¸.·´¨) ¸.·¨) (¸.·´ (¸.·´ ¸.·´ ¸.·´¸.·`·-»JesusFreak (¸.·
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