How would you feel if a girl called you?

soldierforJesus · 06-01-2005, 10:42 AM

I have a question for the Guys: How would you feel if a girl that you met a few months ago, but you just saw her again but you didn't talk, called you? Keep in mind that you did not give her your phone number, she looked it up on her own.
What would you do?

Psymind14 · 06-01-2005, 11:15 AM

Hi...Psymind14 here, I think i know a little what you're talking about...I've got a friend who happens to be a girl (not a girlfriend) and she calls me sometimes...I don't think much about it...We're just good friends...I think you're talking mabey about a romantic sorta call, though... I'd just tell her how i felt about her, the truth that is.

who is like God · 06-02-2005, 12:37 AM

I would be kind of weirded out about it and also touched (there is another word but I can't think of it now) by that. Weirded out that the girl called me with no warning to me and that she got my phone number without me telling her. I would be touched in that she likes me enough to go searching for my number to call me and I would think she likes me also. I think you should talk to the guy first face to face.
Michael

w.e.g. · 06-02-2005, 01:21 AM

been there done that! ummm its kinda flattering at the same time as being weird, but if the girl is cool, and not some creeper, than all is good

Cookiemobsta · 06-02-2005, 02:04 AM

Depends. If she called me up just to chat, I'm be scratching my head a bit when she hung up. If she said something like "I'm getting a big group together to go bowling and I'm calling everybody I know" I'd think it was less weird.
In either case though, it's not like I would hang up or something; especially if I liked the girl when I knew her.
You'd probably have better luck in any case if you try to talk to him beforehand in person. Extra points if you mention in person that you have an event planned with friends, then ask if he'd like to come along as one of the group.

soldierforJesus · 06-02-2005, 11:50 AM

she can't see him face to face though, he goes to a different school.

06-02-2005, 01:12 PM

I'd hang up and be confident that she was a telemarketer.

who is like God · 06-02-2005, 02:31 PM

I would try to see if I could see the person outside of school like at a mall or whereever that person hangs out.
Michael

Cookiemobsta · 06-02-2005, 05:43 PM

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Originally Posted by soldierforJesus

she can't see him face to face though, he goes to a different school.

Then how do you know him? Do you have any mutual friends?

Damaris · 06-02-2005, 05:43 PM

I did that once...not looked up the guy's phone number and all or anything...but we were moving and there was nothing for me to do and I was super bored so I announced to no one in particular that i was goin got call every single person on my contact list. A lot of people i had never even called before, they had just given me their phone number. SOme I hadn't even talked to in months. And yes....some of them were guys. I almost skipped the guys just because I thought "hah, I shouldn't do that" but then I did anyway.

Wow, this is getting long. Anyway, anyone who knows me knows i'm random...so they seemed a bit weirded out but okwith it. And it's not like I kept calling....I jsut called once 'cause i was bored.

So yeah...even though it's a different situation, I'm just saying that just because a girl calls you doesn't mean she likes you...I mean if she looks up your number and all then yeah ok she most likely does but yeah

06-01-2005, 10:42 AM	#1
soldierforJesus soldierforJesus Edit on Gods mission	How would you feel if a girl called you? I have a question for the Guys: How would you feel if a girl that you met a few months ago, but you just saw her again but you didn't talk, called you? Keep in mind that you did not give her your phone number, she looked it up on her own. What would you do? __________________ No walls - embrace a world as one, where music will guide us, guitars instead of guns. ~Hyde, Mission~ †'For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the Lord. 'Plans to prosper you, plans to give you a hope and a future, and not to harm you.'† ~Jeremiah 29:11~ †Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.† ~Proverbs 31:30~ †Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.† ~Hebrews 11:1~
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06-01-2005, 11:15 AM	#2
Psymind14 Psymind14 Edit AY! Newbie	Honesty is the best pollicy Hi...Psymind14 here, I think i know a little what you're talking about...I've got a friend who happens to be a girl (not a girlfriend) and she calls me sometimes...I don't think much about it...We're just good friends...I think you're talking mabey about a romantic sorta call, though... I'd just tell her how i felt about her, the truth that is.
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06-02-2005, 12:37 AM	#3
who is like God who is like God Edit Disciple	I would be kind of weirded out about it and also touched (there is another word but I can't think of it now) by that. Weirded out that the girl called me with no warning to me and that she got my phone number without me telling her. I would be touched in that she likes me enough to go searching for my number to call me and I would think she likes me also. I think you should talk to the guy first face to face. Michael
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06-02-2005, 01:21 AM	#4
w.e.g. w.e.g. Edit Prophet/Prophetess	been there done that! ummm its kinda flattering at the same time as being weird, but if the girl is cool, and not some creeper, than all is good __________________ There is no luck only faith. CAP'N WILLY
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06-02-2005, 02:04 AM	#5
Cookiemobsta Cookiemobsta Edit Prophet/Prophetess	Depends. If she called me up just to chat, I'm be scratching my head a bit when she hung up. If she said something like "I'm getting a big group together to go bowling and I'm calling everybody I know" I'd think it was less weird. In either case though, it's not like I would hang up or something; especially if I liked the girl when I knew her. You'd probably have better luck in any case if you try to talk to him beforehand in person. Extra points if you mention in person that you have an event planned with friends, then ask if he'd like to come along as one of the group. __________________ It's funny...we can be a liar, a cheat, a thief, a deceiver and a trickster with a foul mouth and a prideful spirit. We won't help the poor, and turn our faces in shame when we come across the needy and less fortunate But we'll still call ourselves "holy" because we keep our pants zipped up. Adding on to the hypocrisy, the Believers among us WHO DON'T keep their pants zipped still declare themselves to be "holy" because their intentions are directed towards the opposite sex. -http://www.hollywoodJesus.com/
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06-02-2005, 11:50 AM	#6
soldierforJesus soldierforJesus Edit on Gods mission	she can't see him face to face though, he goes to a different school. __________________ No walls - embrace a world as one, where music will guide us, guitars instead of guns. ~Hyde, Mission~ †'For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the Lord. 'Plans to prosper you, plans to give you a hope and a future, and not to harm you.'† ~Jeremiah 29:11~ †Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.† ~Proverbs 31:30~ †Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.† ~Hebrews 11:1~
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06-02-2005, 01:12 PM	#7
Tyron Tyron Edit Guest	I'd hang up and be confident that she was a telemarketer.

06-02-2005, 02:31 PM	#8
who is like God who is like God Edit Disciple	I would try to see if I could see the person outside of school like at a mall or whereever that person hangs out. Michael
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06-02-2005, 05:43 PM	#10
Damaris Damaris Edit servant	I did that once...not looked up the guy's phone number and all or anything...but we were moving and there was nothing for me to do and I was super bored so I announced to no one in particular that i was goin got call every single person on my contact list. A lot of people i had never even called before, they had just given me their phone number. SOme I hadn't even talked to in months. And yes....some of them were guys. I almost skipped the guys just because I thought "hah, I shouldn't do that" but then I did anyway. Wow, this is getting long. Anyway, anyone who knows me knows i'm random...so they seemed a bit weirded out but okwith it. And it's not like I kept calling....I jsut called once 'cause i was bored. So yeah...even though it's a different situation, I'm just saying that just because a girl calls you doesn't mean she likes you...I mean if she looks up your number and all then yeah ok she most likely does but yeah __________________ Let my heart be fixed on Thee My Lord, my life, my love Linger near and gently lead To rapturous joys above.
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