Women and insecurity

madxmodman · 03-30-2005, 12:23 AM

Hey guys
I've been wondering this for a while, but what do you all think Insecurity in females is caused by, and what aspects of life does it usally effect? I think that the fealing of "being ugly" or "not beautiful" is what causes it most of the time. I also feal that it is baised on a lack of support from parents. I think that it effects the way they treat other people, and it effects their need for attention, also maybe their personality and the way that they grow in their personalitys. what do you all think?

oh yeah, this might be one of those, "as soon as you figure that out, you come back and tell me and I will make sure you become rich and famous" things...

jkplayschess · 03-30-2005, 07:20 AM

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Originally Posted by madxmodman

Hey guys
I've been wondering this for a while, but what do you all think Insecurity in females is caused by, and what aspects of life does it usally effect? I think that the fealing of "being ugly" or "not beautiful" is what causes it most of the time. I also feal that it is baised on a lack of support from parents. I think that it effects the way they treat other people, and it effects their need for attention, also maybe their personality and the way that they grow in their personalitys. what do you all think?

oh yeah, this might be one of those, "as soon as you figure that out, you come back and tell me and I will make sure you become rich and famous" things...

i'd add to your list, poor leadership by their husbands.

HaveFaith2005 · 03-30-2005, 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by madxmodman

Hey guys
I've been wondering this for a while, but what do you all think Insecurity in females is caused by, and what aspects of life does it usally effect? I think that the fealing of "being ugly" or "not beautiful" is what causes it most of the time. I also feal that it is baised on a lack of support from parents. I think that it effects the way they treat other people, and it effects their need for attention, also maybe their personality and the way that they grow in their personalitys. what do you all think?

oh yeah, this might be one of those, "as soon as you figure that out, you come back and tell me and I will make sure you become rich and famous" things...

I don't have a feeling of being ugly, I am. Sorry I know this is guys stuff, but I just had too.

03-30-2005, 08:49 AM

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Originally Posted by HaveFaith2005

I don't have a feeling of being ugly, I am

That's just his point... you have a FEELING of being ugly... that means you think you are... but God thinks you're beautiful and I'm sure when the time is right and you get a husband, he will think you're beautiful too. You need to have confidence about yours looks... guys are more attracted to girls that have confidence than girls who are always putting themselves down.

jkplayschess · 03-30-2005, 10:12 AM

I know I'd rather have a Godly wife, than a beautiful one. Looks don't hurt of course, but they aren't really one of my requirements. I'm not the greatest looking guy myself, but that won't stop my confidence. God is able to use, and bless anyone who will let Him.

HaveFaith2005 · 03-30-2005, 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by imaginarysky

That's just his point... you have a FEELING of being ugly... that means you think you are... but God thinks you're beautiful and I'm sure when the time is right and you get a husband, he will think you're beautiful too. You need to have confidence about yours looks... guys are more attracted to girls that have confidence than girls who are always putting themselves down.

Then you haven't meant the guy, I like. No offence.

w.e.g. · 03-30-2005, 12:56 PM

saying your ugly will only deter the guy, you could be the most attractive person in the world and if you say your ugly the guy will be dterred, it goes both ways to someone who isn't so attractive who carries themselves with confidence will get my vote over someone who thinks themselves ugly

HaveFaith2005 · 03-30-2005, 04:11 PM

maybe so. I just don't understand guys

HeavenBound · 03-30-2005, 05:06 PM

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Originally Posted by jkplayschess

I know I'd rather have a Godly wife, than a beautiful one. Looks don't hurt of course, but they aren't really one of my requirements. I'm not the greatest looking guy myself, but that won't stop my confidence. God is able to use, and bless anyone who will let Him.

AMEN! I totally agree with ya there, man!

HeavenBound · 03-30-2005, 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by HaveFaith2005

maybe so. I just don't understand guys

Me too!

03-30-2005, 12:23 AM	#1
madxmodman madxmodman Edit Evangelist/Missionary	Women and insecurity Hey guys I've been wondering this for a while, but what do you all think Insecurity in females is caused by, and what aspects of life does it usally effect? I think that the fealing of "being ugly" or "not beautiful" is what causes it most of the time. I also feal that it is baised on a lack of support from parents. I think that it effects the way they treat other people, and it effects their need for attention, also maybe their personality and the way that they grow in their personalitys. what do you all think? oh yeah, this might be one of those, "as soon as you figure that out, you come back and tell me and I will make sure you become rich and famous" things... __________________ ~MadXmodMan~ Check out my myspace @ http://www.myspace.com/madxmodman and check out my YG's myspace @ http://www.myspace.com/elevateyouthchurch (read the blog! You might like it!)
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03-30-2005, 10:12 AM	#5
jkplayschess jkplayschess Edit Prophet/Prophetess	I know I'd rather have a Godly wife, than a beautiful one. Looks don't hurt of course, but they aren't really one of my requirements. I'm not the greatest looking guy myself, but that won't stop my confidence. God is able to use, and bless anyone who will let Him.
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03-30-2005, 12:56 PM	#7
w.e.g. w.e.g. Edit Prophet/Prophetess	saying your ugly will only deter the guy, you could be the most attractive person in the world and if you say your ugly the guy will be dterred, it goes both ways to someone who isn't so attractive who carries themselves with confidence will get my vote over someone who thinks themselves ugly __________________ There is no luck only faith. CAP'N WILLY
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03-30-2005, 04:11 PM	#8
HaveFaith2005 HaveFaith2005 is in your extened network. Edit Have a great day!	maybe so. I just don't understand guys __________________ Have a blesse New Year!
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