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Old 03-29-2005, 08:55 PM   #1
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Unhappy The dumped feeling.

You know that feeling you get right after someone sais "lets just be friends"... well i'm feeling that right now. ugh it's horrid. and the thing is, i just wanted to be friends too, but he brought it up and said it to me first, and somehow it hurts more. this happened like 2 mins ago and i had no one to talk to and no one i can tell that i'm actually upset so i came here to let it out... does anyone else do what i do and act strong and like you feel the same way even though you don't? I have an issue w/ that... anytime a guy breaks up w/ me.. i pretend it's all good and i agree w/ why we should. but it's a lie.. i just don't want to look weak or hurt.. i think i'm actually being chicken though by doing this.. maybe not i donno. any way i just am trying not to cry and had no one to talk to so i came here.
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Old 03-29-2005, 09:02 PM   #2
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just let it out, i think the best way to deal with it as with all things is with the truth, no holds barred
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Old 03-29-2005, 10:11 PM   #3
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Yes, I know the dumped fealing well........ Like w.e.g. said, just let it out... the pain will probably go away...
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Old 03-30-2005, 07:07 PM   #4
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I believe this is something of a "churchy" cliche, but it's still an awesome thought: If this person wasn't right for you, it means that there's somebody better down the line. If thought the person you're dating was the awesomest guy you could imagine, your husband is going to be better than the awesomest guy you could imagine

Also, take a look at what you're missing from the relationship. If you enjoyed the time spent 1v1 with the guy, grab one friend and hit the mall together. If you enjoyed the emotional intimacy, chat about something deep with someone you trust, etc.
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